A Matter for Prayer

We are fast approaching the end of Dan's first semester at Seminary. We have learned so much and are so thankful for the Lord's leading us here. He has so evidently paved each step for us and our needs have been met above and beyond what we dreamed. Though the Lord has provided for us and we feel certain that we have been faithful to follow every bend and curve in the road Dan is running on empty. We have begun looking and praying for the Lord's leading in following our desire to find a church ministry position. We have begun the long process of application and questionnaires.

We have been looking mainly for a children's minister position but have applied for other positions. After serving in Youth ministry during our college years we have not felt the call to specific youth ministry until recently. God has given us a new vision for youth ministry. We also have a desire to serve in a Pastor/Associate pastor position. Dan applied for one bi-vocational pastorate in a very small church here in Fort Worth and they have contacted him and we will be visting the church this following Sunday and Dan will be preaching. I have to admit that right now the responsibility of pastoring a church, no matter what the size, is quite overwhelming. But we are willing to pursue God's will in what ever position He leads us to.
SO . . .please be in prayer for Dan as he prepares and leads the service on Sunday and pray that we might be willing to follow Christ to serve in a place that is unknown to us. . .The Pastorate! I have no doubt that Dan can fill this position and that God would bless us all but it seems like such a huge responsibility!!

There is a youth ministry position that we would really like to have and it is very hard not to run ahead of God in this. We already have plans and ideas and dreams. SO we keep having to stop and give it over to God, again, and again, and again. To be able to be with Dan and be involved in his service is so enticing. I have to remember that whatever God wills for us, my most important job is the one I am doing everyday, right here with my sweet girls. It is enough and I am content but a girl can dream can't she? I guess as long as I can remain content dreaming is ok.

Dan and I learned a long time ago how to minister together. I am so blessed to have a husband that recognizes our differences as an asset rather than a hinderance. We have learned to use our differences to compliment each other and balance each other out. I guess not all couples are blessed with the desire or opportunity to work together but I wouldn't trade that for anything! Dan is my best friend, and so much more!!

Oh, LORD, hear my words and know my heart. Our desire is to serve you. We want most to live a life that is pleasing to you. If you are calling us to something different than we desire then change our hearts and give us the strength to desire YOUR very best for us and to see your very best as a blessing and honor.

The Christmas Elves

Well, the Christmas season is upon us again! Somehow it always creeps up on me. At the beginning of the new year you think it will be forever before the next Christmas season and then BOOM! here it is again and I am never ready for it. I LOVE Christmas but it always catches me off gaurd. Someday I will be one of those women who plan for Christmas months in advance and have all of my shopping done by the end of the summer but right now I will just enjoy the flurry of activity that I know to be Christmas. I usually do better under pressure anyway. (Someone once said that's what people who put things off always say, and though it may be infinitely true, I resent it all the same!)

Anyway, here are my little helpers. Elise is looking quite fierce. We Bragdons take our tree decorating very seriously. Olivia helped me take the picture. You see the top of her little head in the left corner.

After being pregnant or nursing for 5 years straight I often blamed my forgetfulness on my hormone overload. I called it pregnant brain. Well, I haven't been nursing or pregnant for at least 6 months now and I haven't recovered from pregnant brain! Perhaps now I will call it Toddler Brain! But I never used to have to make lists to remember things like. . . Clean the Bathroom. Now, however, I find myself looking back on the day and always thinking what was it I was supposed to do today? Somedays are better than others. Like the week or two that I forgot to pay the rent!! Yep! Just forgot. I kept reminding myself to save the rent money because we needed to pay rent soon but two weeks later I realized we were sadly overdue!! Thank goodness the seminary is very gracious!! So for this Christmas season I find myself making list after list of things to accomplish in such a short span of time. I don't mind though, Christmas just gives me a more focused idea of how to show the love of Christ to others. I like to think that I strive for that always but this holiday season helps us all to remember a little better. My creativity is definitely being taxed this season, though. I am determined to have gifts for all of our loved ones and friends. Which means the girls and I will be doing lots of baking. I love to bake but try not to because for some reason baking leads to eating! SO if I give away all of my baked goods then I still get my baking fix without the temptation of overindulgence. Does anyone have any favorite holiday recipes that they would like to gift to us for this holiday? Candy, breads, drinks, what are your favorite Christmas food traditions? Lay 'em on me! Maybe if you share yours then I might share a few of my own.

Don't forget, too, that the busyness of this season isn't why we do it!! I, for one, do all of this crazy stuff to show the world that they can not take Christ out of Christmas. For me and my family, this season is all about Christ. If I can show that to at least one other person who has forgotten then all of the busyness and craziness is well worth it to me!!

Happy Thanksgiving, Ya'll!!

Well, we aren't going to be spending Thanksgiving with family but we get the next best thing!! We have been invited to spend the holiday with friends and their family!! We were planning to spend tomorrow with some new friends from church but they all came down with a nasty cold virus. We were so looking forward to getting to know them better, we sure do hope the Ostics get to feeling better and I hope Jim feels good enough to cook the turkey anyway. They were doing the turkey and rolls and cranberry sauce and some desserts and we were bringing the rest. If I had already cooked everything I would just drop it off for them. Who wants to cook when you are sick? But unfortunately I hadn't started cooking yet!!

Sunday the Gerlt's asked us what our plans for Thanksgiving were and I called them up this afternoon to see if the offer was still good. YIPPEE!! Not only do we love the Gerlts but we LOVE the Allens, too!! We get a double treat!! We get to spend the day with our friends and their dear family!! Erin's parents have known Dan and I since before we were Dan and I.
I even get to bring some food, but I think they are just humoring me so I won't feel like a bum. I am bringing an apple pie for Dan and Festive Tossed Salad. It is so yummy!! I found the recipe last year when I was preparing my first Thanksgiving dinner and I have decided it will be one of our yearly recipes. I think things like that are fun and well, honestly, you have to make the dressing and that's just a once a year kind of thing for me.

So even though I am super homesick for family, we will be fellowshipping with friends that are closer than a brother, well maybe not closer but you know what I mean. Both of our families will be getting together. We would love to be with them both but if we can't be with family being with the Gerlts and Allens is pretty darn close!

And on Friday I get to put up the Christmas decorations!!!! I bought some new Christmas music today, I couldn't help it!! I love this time of year it is so magical and I know all the secrets of the magic!

Thanksgiving Week

I love Thanksgiving! It is one of my favorite holidays. It is still just about giving thanks to our Lord for the blessings of life. It is a time for family, friends, and food!! That is a pretty good combination if you ask me.

I love holidays that give me an excuse to do cooking, baking, or both for lots of people. I love to cook and bake but if I cook and bake lots for my own family I end up eating it myself. I have realized that eating lots just isn't good for my 5' 1" little body. BUT if I have people coming around that actually can eat or like to eat at least one day of the year then I am set loose to enjoy the culinary joys of preparing a feast! I also have this, let's call it a. . . compulsion, to always try new recipes when I have company coming over. It usually works out well. I just can't help it, I am always looking for something new and yummier than last time. But if I find a recipe that is perfect, then I perfect it and keep it around.

Perhaps someday my children will grow enough to enjoy food in a healthy manner and I will enjoy cooking for them, too.

So for all of you first timers, or experts, Don't forget to start thawing your turkey!!!!


Question of the Day:
Is pumpkin pie better made from a can or from a baking pumpkin?

Happy Birthday to my Birthday Sisters and Half Birthday Brother!!

I am a little late but late is better than never, right?
I just wanted to say Happy Birthday to my birthday sisters!!! November 13, is a very special day for some of my favorite people!
My college roomate and one of my bride's maids, Melisa Izaguirre,
Happy Birthday!!! Nov, 13!!
She always remembers to call, too!

Also Aunt Patty is a birthday sister!!
Happy Birthday, Aunt Patty!!!
It's really amazing I am 28 and she is only 29!!

Also I would hate to leave out my Half/Birthday Buddy!!

Happy Half-Birthday Chad Gerlt!!!
Hope you had a special day, too!!

Birthday Week

I have had a really great week! Diana, Dan's mom came for a visit on Sunday and we just got home a few hours ago from dropping her off at the airport. I have to say I definitely got the better end of the bargain. She came Sunday and let Dan and I go out for my birthday that night while she stayed at home with the girls AND made me a birthday cake. She slept in the bunk bed with the girls! She insisted that it was fun for her! Then we went on Monday to the museum and she took us to eat at Chick-fil-A with Dan. Tuesday we spent the morning at the zoo and then she let me go shop that afternoon for a couple of hours all by myself!!! I was a woman on a mission. I didn't even slow down enough to say "No, Thank you," to the booth sellers in the middle of the mall. It's too bad I didn't find anything! Then Wednesday we went to the library for story hour and ate at Chick-fil-A AGAIN! Then I spent most of that evening on the couch not feeling well. She folded my laundry, got the girls snacks, did all the dishes while she was here and did everything else that has to happen everyday. What a breath of fresh air. She assured me that she loved getting in on our routine but I know she is going home to a full schedule and I just pray she gets a good nights sleep tonight!! We love you, Mimi and we sure did enjoy your visit.

I have to tell you, I am so blessed to have a mother-in-law that is more friend than relative. She challenges me spiritually and is continually sharing what Christ is doing in her life. She works hard to keep up our relationship and she is so full of grace for me when I am too overwhelmed to carry my part of the relationship work. Thank You, Lord for the tremendous blessing I recieved when I became a B.!!!

I have such a wonderful family! Two sets of parents that are THE best parents. That just doesn't happen because of some cosmic coincidence! That my friends is the blessing of an Almighty Father who cares about every detail of each and every one of our lives!!

An Ordered Life

Yesterday, I had a small breakdown. I have all of these convictions for creating a more peaceful and ordered home and yet I want them to just jump into existence! Here are some of the tasks I am trying to routine into my day: Preschool class for FaithLyn and Elise twice a week, One craft a week(0r more) for the girls and I, less TV watching, reading lots of books with the girls, cooking more, healthier eating, healthier cooking, baking with the girls once a week, involving the girls with house chores, playing outside every day, excercise regularly, keep house clean by getting in a routine for cleaning all week.

SO, just a FEW things that I have been working on for oh, say, the last few years!! Some are new convictions and some are reconvictions! But I haven't been faithful in following through or the Lord wouldn't have to REconvict me of these things. They are all healthy habits for living and about the preschool thing well, that's a big one for me. I have always been a "salt and light" send our kids to public school kind of girl. But I did surrender this to the Lord and I am willing to do what ever the Lord leads in this respect. Right now, I just want my kids to be ready and have the basic skills they need.

Back to the breakdown. I trained in college to be a High/Middle school English/Speech teacher. I don't know how to teach a 4 and 2 1/2 yr. old!! First of all, I don't remember how to break the knowledge down to the basics. I get so frustrated when they don't understand me. I don't know how to get them to sit still and wait patiently. OK, Ok, I know they are very young, but I am trying to get them used to these things, right? Well, I finally made it through my Aa game craft and sent them outside. I ran back to my room and lost it! I get so tired of the question, "What can we do next, Mommy?"

Now bear with me here, I have to share this to show a part of me that I am learning to experience some growth in.

Have any of you Moms gotten tired of being responsible for every moment of entertainment for your children? Well, like I said it was a breakdown. Not a rational moment for me.

While I was crying out to my Savior for a "calgon moment" he simply reminded me that being a Mom is hard work. If I am truly committed to living a life that is pleasing to Him then I will die to self daily. That means generally the same thing for everyone but when you start to examine your heart it is lived out in different ways. For me it means being willing to coordinate every moment of my girls day in order to achieve the goals Christ has set before me. I forget that these sweet little people I am charged to care for haven't traveled on this journey for as long as I. I know it sounds silly but I expect my children to buck up and fall under the expectations I have set for myself in order to make it easier for ME to accomplish MY goals.

So I sat myself down and first prayed for forgiveness for having such warped expectations and for getting frustrated with my children. Next, I thought through very specifically what about my time with the girls triggers my frustration. 1. I don't know what to expect developmentally. 2. I don't know how to present it in an age appropriate way. 3. I wasn't sufficiently prepared. 4. my supplies are disorganized. For all of you super organized friends out there, you know who you are, I am catching on. SLOWLY but surely.

After I made this mental list I actually wrote down what I need to do to fix these problem areas. This is what I came up with. 1. Do some reaserch and reading on age development and teaching preschoolers. 2. Organize my craft supplies. 3. Fully prepare at least 2 lessons at a time that are ready to go! 4. Get all of my "great ideas" organized into a notebook. 5. Make a list of daytime activities that's easily accessible when the girls need help with ideas. 6. Prepare three boxes of "special time" toys for alone play time for the girls. 7. Loosen up a bit about perfection.

This is a big step for me!! It usually takes me tellling Dan all the ugly details and him saying very simply, "Well, Kelli, it seems like all you need to do is. . ."

I always get lost in the here and now and forget to focus on the principles/goals that Dan and I want to teach our girls. It's so easy for me to focus in too micrscopically on each moment and let the long term perspective go. It's easy to do when you have someone needing you to do something important all the time. I could spend my whole day meeting immediate needs but I would not be doing my girls any favors by letting go of the important long-term needs. I am slowly learning the neccessity/benefit of a more scheduled day. And the Lord is so merciful, thankfully I will not be judged according to how well I accomplish these goals. I want to succeed but success is not my motivating factor. My motivation comes from a deep desire to know and please my loving Savior, who loved me and gave himself for me. The more I know him the more I want to follow his example and the more I learn of him and his example the easier it gets to want to love and know him more. It is one endless cycle that I am thankful to be caught up in!

VOTE TODAY!!!

Please don't forget to VOTE!! Vote your values! You can get a voters guide pretty easily online. Dan found ours so I don't have a web address for you. Voters guide or no GO VOTE!!

Delightful Days with Daddy Dan

We have been soaking up every possible moment with Dan this weekend!! He finished his mammoth paper on John Hus (you'll have to ask him about it!) and all of this round of tests are complete. And to top it all off. . .he had this weekend off!! So starting Friday at about 6:30 we only had eyes for Daddy! It was such a wonderful weekend!! We ate at Rosa's on Friday with Hannah Mize and her kiddos, YUMMY! Then Saturday we let Daddy sleep in a bit and we headed of to a friends 1st Birthday party! After naps we went to the Fort Worth Museum and saw the IMAX Ride Around the World. It's the history of cowboys. FUN! Then we checked out the new Notion of Motion Exhibit and headed to Chick-A-lay for dinner!! Then we came home and managed to get into bed at 9:00 for two nights in row! SLeep! GLorious SLeep!! Then church was sure fun with Dan today. Last week he had to stay home and work feverishly on his paper. You know it's crunch time if Dan is skipping church! And I won a gift card to Boston Market at MOPS on Friday so we ate there for lunch! WHEW! that was a lot of eating out but it sure makes Mommy happy when my time with Dan isn't all consumed with meal prep!!

WoW!! You would think we have had enough excitment but we just about to head out the door and make our way to the Gerlthouse for some much awaited and much needed fellowship!! The girls have been asking ALL day "Is it time to go to Anna Takes house?" Elise still inverts her t's and k's. Pretty cute, huh? I would love to go on and on about how great our weekend has been but you are just going to have to settle for this quick recap because it's time to go!! More Fun!! Get ready GerltHouse!! We have some pent up love to shower on you guys!! I hope you can handle it!

New Look For BClan

I thought it was about time for a new look. Tell me what you think.